Wednesday, January 1, 2014

2013: A big year for the Rodas - extra long blog post.....

Hey Awesome People.

Apologies in advance, this is going to be an extremely photo heavy post. But we were taking stock and realized that  2013 was a really big year for the Roda clan... so we thought we'd write up a little "year-in-review" to make up for all the posts we intended to do this year but got caught up doing other things. (Oops). We obviously weren't able to recount everything we did this year, but tried our best to show-and-tell some of the big highlights.

Monthly Highlights

January

Waikiki Beach

We rang in the end last year and the beginning of this year in Hawaii. We went down to visit our buddy Ben, who was finishing up a Masters degree at the University of Hawaii and used it as an excuse to get in a little R&R before our last semesters of grad school.

Surf's up on Christmas

Christmas Luau

Walked through Mordor via lava tubes on the Big Island

And had fun visiting our other friends Anna, Ben, Kerry and their families

January also saw the passing of Nikki's grandmother, Millie Candelore. She was perhaps the most amazing woman of her generation and we won't relay all of her stories here, but it is worth sharing just how awesome she was.



She grew up in Iowa where she learned to play saxophone. She moved to Mexico where she got a job performing on a cruise ship.  That took her to Alaska, Hawaii, Japan, and ultimately Australia.  She spent 2 years in Australia traveling around picking up odd jobs here and there and playing her saxophone. From there she got a job on a boat heading to Europe (stopping in Singapore and Mumbai on the way). She did all of this in the late 1940s!

In Europe, she met Nikki's grandfather, Dante, got married and raised 4 beautiful children. She took them on epic adventures driving through Turkey in a VW bus, camping at ski resorts, and the stories go on (ask Nikki's Dad for more next time you get the chance). Eventually she moved back to the US and set up a real estate business in San Diego, where she continued to work improving properties well into her 80s. She had an infectious smile, could sniff out a bargain better than anyone, and will always be remembered for her independent spirit and strong will. She was an amazing person who was so kind and loving. We will miss her tremendously.

February

Nikki welcoming everyone to the 2nd annual A2 DataDive

Claire and Nikki, partners in crime

Nikki successfully pulled off the 2nd annual A2 DataDive at the University of Michigan and Allen got a renewal of his fellowship at the Met. In February, we were still living in separate cities then, and it was a sad, cold time, but at least Allen was able to visit for Valentine's day.

On the upside, Nikki's interview process gave her a chance to go back to San Francisco and visit friends!

Wonderful to see the friendly faces of Lettie, Evan, and Munaf again

March

The Candelores took the Rodas to Panamรก!  

Tropical Paradise

Happy family all together

Traditional folkloric dancing of Panama

Watching boats go through the locks on the canal

View of Panama City


It turns out that both of our families have deep connections to Panama. Nikki's mother is, of course, Panamanian and the daughter of the Panamanian Ambassador to the United Nations. Allen's grandmother is a graduate of Balboa high school in the canal zone and her grandfather was sent by the United States to explore the land at some point in the second half of the 1800's. More recently, however, Allen's mother spent formative years of her childhood in the canal zone when her father was stationed there after World War II. She hadn't been back since she was 6 years old.

The house Jane lived in during her time in Panama

Highlights included finding Allen's mother's childhood home based off of a vague address and an old photo, meeting Scarlet and Jovito Nikki's mother's cousins, and spending lots of time at the Beach and in the Rainforest. And we can't forget the amazing wine we discovered - seriously, we (apparently) have a winery in Spain!

Obviously a future pilgrimage to Spain is in order

April -

"The best Offense is a good Defense" - words of wisdom.

In April, Allen defended his dissertation and there was much celebrating as he officially became Dr. Roda! He got a lot of positive feedback on the ideas he presented at his defense and more importantly, he was given some great feedback on how he can convert his dissertation into a book!

Allen with his defense committee: 
Jim Kippen, Tejaswini Ganti, Allen, Martin Daughtry, and Fred Myers

May

The season for Graduations!

Nikki receiving the Student Impact Award at graduation

In May, our family received the highest honor imaginable. The University of Michigan created the Nikki Candelore Roda Student Impact Award. Needless to say, it was epic. We posted about Nikki's graduation here, so click for more photos, the amazing video, and Allen's write up of the event.

So many good times with amazing friends in Michigan!

And least we forget, Allen also graduated from NYU a few days later and there were plenty more photo ops - click here to see them!

Proud parents of a newly minted Doctor

In May, we also had a wonderful visit from Hamsa and Danika, our friends from India, and finally got to meet baby Ellora - and she was so Ellorable!!!!

Happy Family!

Our favorite pastime - playing bridge!

And best of all, by May we knew that Nikki would be returning to NY for a job in User Experience and Interaction Design at Goldman Sachs and Allen would be staying at the Met in the Musical Instruments department .... and that meant we could be together again! (It's always better when we're together.)

June

Having both graduated, we decided to celebrate with a little Michigan staycation before Nikki had to start at training at Goldman.  So we went back to A2 and had a blast with ALL OF THE FRIENDS and enjoyed just how awesome Michigan summers can be. We enjoyed beer gardens, played games, went canoeing and took a trip to Cedar Point - which has the scariest roller coasters in America!

The glorious rides of Cedar Point

Packing our bags... we're ready to go...

Then we moved to the city and began the epic apartment hunt.

On July 1st, the Met began to stay open 7 days a week, which meant that taking friends around on Mondays, when the museum was closed, was going to come to an end. So we took the Calendores around for a fun day of looking at art, laughing, and being silly.

Life impersonates art... and Mom is a good sport

July

View of downtown Manhattan, where Nikki works

Nikki officially started training at Goldman.

The Audio guide updates that Allen had been working on at The Metropolitan Museum of Art went live. So now if you get the audio guide at the Met, you will hear Allen's voice on the guide.  Here is a link to the videos that he shot in the South Asia gallery of the Islamic Art department. If you scroll down you can choose more of the videos.

http://www.metmuseum.org/metmedia/video/collections/mi/bhojpuri-folk-song-from-uttar-pradesh

In July, Allen also went to a conference at Oxford which you can read about here.

We also celebrated the 4th with our friends, Jennie and John and their absolutely spectacular view of fireworks over the city.

August



In August we moved in to our new home in Harlem. Yay!  Our new home is on the top floor of a brownstone, it has more space than we have had in a long time (including a second bedroom and half bath.... wink, wink, nudge nudge - come visit!)

One of the best things about our new neighborhood is that we are super close to our good friends Serena and Ben and their super cute baby, Julius!

Yeah for super friend neighbors!

We were also visited by good friends Gina and Ben and Nikki finished training! Her office threw a pretty kickin' party for Indian Independence day celebration and it was fun to be able to share our experiences of India with her coworkers.

Jai ho!

September

Cool customer, Ms. Chloe

We adopted a cat named Chloe in September. She had been living with the former tenant of our current apartment, but couldn't go with her to the next apartment, so we decided to take care of her. She needed someone who was going to be home more, and importantly, wouldn't lock her out of the bedroom because they were still allergic to her. Unfortunately, we realized that she needed more attention than we could give her so we found her a new home. She is much happier and has brought a lot of happiness to her new dad.

Nikki also officially started working with her new team. She is an interaction designer and is working to help make internal software more user-friendly, by interviewing the users and making design recommendations based on their feedback.

Allen also joined a new class of fellows at the Met, which was very exciting. Lots of new friends!

And we had a few fun September visitors including Sarah, Anit, and their baby Amara!

October

October is always awesome. Especially in New York when the leaves change color and the temperature cools a little, but is still pleasant.  The month also began with Met receiving an electric guitar from Paul Reed Smith. We got to hang out with Ricky Skaggs, John McLaughlin, and Tony McManus!
 Ricky Skaggs and Paul Reed Smith

This year we celebrated Allen's birthday with a Housewarming/Birthday/Halloween party. Our friends Jeremy and Jessie also invited us to a Halloween Party at Kickstarter!  It was super-fun.

November

At this year's Society for Ethnomusicology annual conference, Allen received the Charles Seeger Prize for Best Student Paper at the previous year's meeting.  Yay! If you want to read the paper, here's a link

For Thanksgiving this year, we went down to North Carolina early so we could take my Dad to a Duke basketball game at Cameron Indoor Stadium.  It was a very exciting (and I am not just talking about the complete and total lack of handicapped accessible seating areas for visitors). Duke was supposed to cream Vermont, but it ended up being a really close game! With 5 seconds to go, the good guys were only up by 1 and Vermont had the ball. Fortunately they didn't get the shot off in time and we won!

Go Duke!

 Hanging out with the Williams clan! So grown up since the last time we saw you all

Perhaps the best part of that trip, however, was that we got to spend time with our cousins the Williams family and all of their beautiful children as well as my Uncle John, Aunt Peggy, and Aunt Susie. On the way home from Raleigh we stopped by Wake Forest so Nikki could take a little walk on the Quad!

Go Deacs!

From there we went up to Asheville where we hung out with the South Carolina Bradys and the Kentucky Rodas. Lots of little ones running around the house makes for an exciting and fun-filled week.

The Roda and Brady clans

December - Winter Fun Times!

Another treat from working at the Met was that we got to hang out with Tony Trishka and Steve Martin when they came to perform at the museum.

Allen's "selfie" (you can see him in the mirror)

We also went back to A2 to visit friends again and had so much fun - even though it literally dumped snow on us every day we were there :)

Are we gonna make it?

Icicles in Nikki's hair from the cold

At Christmas, we had a relaxed week with the Candelores and their good friend Naomi doing jigsaw puzzles and recharging our batteries after what has been a VERY exciting year.

Merry Christmas!

The doctors of the house (Allison, Darek, and Allen) doing an anatomy puzzle


And last but not least, we celebrated our celebrating our 5th Anniversary on New Year's Eve of 2013. To celebrate, we went going to Ken Metzner's 80th Birthday party. It was so nice of him to spend his 75th birthday at our wedding, so we were thrilled to spend our anniversary at his birthday party!!!!

Happy Birthday Ken!

To many more adventures and many more years to come!

If you've made it this far - I applaud you, dear readers. We had a lot of stories to share and we've been horrible about documenting the last year... but hopefully you get a feel for what has been keeping us busy.

We wish you and your families a very happy, healthy, and prosperous New Year! And see you all in 2014!

Friday, August 9, 2013

Oxford Conference

Guest Blogger, Allen!

Hey friends and family.  Last week I got to go to a conference in Oxford. Oxford is pretty awesome for those of you who haven't been there before. Here are a few highlights, although I am not really the best photographer...


This was the guest house where I stayed. My windows are open on the top floor on the right....


The Pitt Rivers is a super cool Anthropology Museum with literally TONS of stuff in a really small space - really fun to explore.  And they had a cool musical instrument collection!


The view of Christ Church college from across the lawn by a river.  A lovely place for a walk and I really got lucky with the weather!

Last but not least, at the Gala Dinner there was a Theremin Recital!!!!  Link to Video:

For those who don't know what a Theremin is, it is an electronic musical instrument that allows you to control the sound by manipulating an electro-magnetic field. You don't have to touch anything! that said, you still have to have very precise movements and it takes a lot of skill and practice.  Apologies that the video is a bit shaky for the first 30 seconds while I was getting settled with my phone - and the volume is really low so you need to turn up your speakers.
Enjoy!


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Thursday, May 23, 2013

Back to New York City, Again!

Well, hello, again!

It is official: We're headed back to NYC for good* starting in July 2013! As I mentioned in the previous post, Allen will be heading back to the Metropolitan Museum of Art for another year long fellowship in their Musical Instruments department. And I've accepted an offer with Goldman Sach's User Experience team, where I'll be doing Interaction Design on their in house software.

We're immensely excited that our journeys have brought us back to a city we consider home; the one where we met, the one where we first started out. We're looking forward to reconnecting with old friends and getting to see my family (who are across the river in NJ) more often.

Hello again, New York, did you miss us!?
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*Or until we are swept somewhere else... Maybe I mean "for the time being"



Allen Graduates from NYU!

This past Monday, the Rodas and the Candelores had the immense pleasure of watching Allen graduate from NYU's Graduate School of Arts and Sciences with his PhD in Music. The ceremony had all of the pomp and circumstance that one could ask for: the bright gowns, the colorful hoods, the large shoulder pads, and the puffy hats, all set to the background of Lincoln Center's Avery Fisher Hall*.

Proud graduate

GSAS Master's and Doctorate Graduates filing into Avery Fisher Hall

Expectant family members and friends ready to cheer on their graduates

Every school has its own particular flavor of commencement ceremony, and NYU was no different. NYU graduates were "hooded" by members of the GSAS faculty before walking across the stage to shake hands with the Dean of the School.

A little hard to see, but that is Allen crouched down to allow a faculty member to present him with his hood

Well, Hello Dean!

Make way, newly minted PhD coming through!!

Yeah! We're all so proud of you, Allen!

Besides completing his PhD, which was quite a challenge, Allen's dissertation was accepted without revisions (which is almost unheard of). Despite how hard the last couple of years have been, Allen's scholarship spoke for itself and he can walk away from NYU knowing that his work is unique and valuable.**

What makes this accomplishment even more exciting is the fact that Allen's fellowship at the Metropolitan Museum of Art has been extended for another year. He has big plans to continue his scholarship on the Met's musical instrument collection and get more involved apprenticing with the non-western instrument curator over the next year. On to the next big adventure!

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* Very appropriate considering Allen's degree, no?
** He has had several big wigs tell him so!

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Nikki's Graduation! - by Guest Blogger Allen!


Justifiably Proud and Happy Graduate - the red rope is for her commitment to community service

On Friday May 3rd, I had the pleasure of witnessing perhaps the most amazing event I have ever seen. While I was anticipating the usual pomp and circumstance of graduation, I don’t think I could have ever guessed that Nikki's graduation ceremony would be so special and so meaningful.

Candelores and Rodas on the front row

It began in the usual way with speeches and platitudes about the value of education and all of those things. I really appreciated that they introduced each of the PhD students individually and briefly discussed their research before presenting them with degrees. I doubt NYU will do anything like that.

Then they started presenting student awards. Nikki had said something that morning about there being awards given out for academic achievement and professional promise, as well as one that was chosen by the students to honor a fellow student dedicated to "service, empathy, confidence-building, industry and responsibility." When they began to announce these awards, I was just sure that Nikki was going to get one, because she was such an awesome student – how could she not? Alas, the awards went to other students – who most certainly deserved them – but since I am Nikki’s husband I am allowed to be biased.

Then I saw on the program that a “Special Award” was next to be presented. It was unclear what that meant.  The Dean began by explaining that the two awards that they school currently gives out were both established in the honor of retiring faculty who had given much of their lives to the School of Information. The school has not instituted a new award for students in 41 years, but decided the time had come.

Rodas anticipate that Nikki might be getting this new special award.

And rather than honor a faculty member, this time they were going to honor a student. A student, who in two short years had done so much for the School of Information that the only way they could think to acknowledge her impact was to create an award in her honor.

At this point, the lights dimmed, and they began a video slide show in homage to Nikki Roda – the first and only student in the history of UM School of Information to have an award established in her honor.  The pictures were captioned with quotes from friends and colleagues that highlighted just how special a person Nikki Candelore Roda is.

Fast forward to 1:02:14 to get to the good part

You can also see the commencement video HERE and read a description of the awards – .

If you can't read all the captions in the video, I typed them out for you:
A True Leader
Setting the Pace in the Classroom
SOCHI Officer
A2DataDive Founder
Spirit of Service
Fierce Drive
Intellectual Courage
Innovator
Vibrant
Lasting Legacy
Deep Involvement
Self-Motivated

It is really hard to capture in words just how magical an experience it was. At the end of the video, the entire audience began to cheer loudly. There was a standing ovation from all of the students - as well as their families as Nikki walked up to the stage - It. Was. Amazing.

The honor wasn’t for Nikki’s any particular achievement – although they cited all the work she did for the DataDive, the Student Clubs and Organizations, Alternate Spring Break, and Service Day as examples of ways in which she gave back to the School and the community – no the award wasn’t for any of those accomplishments, it was for being who Nikki is. A person who doesn’t just talk about doing things, but gets them done – whose heart is so full, so generous, and caring that she can’t help herself but to help others when she has the ability and the opportunity.

As she explained in planning the first A2 DataDive – “We have the Skills, We’d be doing something really good for the world, and It would be really cool.”


None of us knew this was coming

The Dean used those same words in introducing Nikki, the first recipient of the Nikki Candelore Roda Student Impact Award.  The award not only honors Nikki’s tireless spirit, infectious enthusiasm, and indomitable will to do good, but it reflects the University’s ongoing commitment to community service.  The A2 DataDive, which she established (with the help of Claire Barco and Emily Puckett-Rogers) is going to become an annual event sponsored by the University and overseen by the office of student affairs. Her legacy will be felt at UMSI every year as they plan this event, and every spring when they honor a student whose commitment to service warrants special recognition.

After he presented her the award, without any preparation, he asked Nikki to say a few words.  She really didn't know this was going to happen; it caught us all by surprise. Most of us were impressed that she was even able to talk at all. Not only did she deliver a speech, but it was touching, eloquent, and on point. She thanked everyone for their support and expressed how meaningful it had been for her to learn from her students and learn to work together. She was humble and gracious. When she finished, there was another instant standing ovation (truncated in the video). Not just from the students, but from all of the students’ family members who didn’t even know who Nikki was before that day. The speeches and the discussions of who Nikki is – not just what she had done - moved everyone in the auditorium to their feet. It was amazing.

This is a heavy honor.  One that we don’t take lightly – and so – I think it is hard for Nikki to talk about it herself. But I don’t have any difficulty at all telling you and the entire world that my wife is AMAZING. Everyone loves her, is proud of her, and rejoices in her accomplishments. As someone who has known for a long time just how awesome Nikki is, I am overwhelmed with joy and pride to see her University express a similar level of gratitude and pride. This is perhaps the highest honor they could have possibly bestowed on Nikki – and the highest honor they have ever bestowed on a student.  It’s. Just. Incredible. – and there really aren’t sufficient words to describe it.
The Rodas and the Candelores were all in attendance. We had great seats right behind the graduates. And since we were all so overjoyed with the occasion, it’s no surprise that we managed to get some good pictures. Without further ado, here are some of my favorites.

Nikki and Darek

Nikki with Pete and Jane

Nikki and her partner in crime, Claire Barco

Nikki with Veronica and Laura from the Office of Student Affairs

Darek and Allison

Nikki and Dean Jeff MacKie-Mason

SI Graduate Shenanigans: Kate, Kendra, Phil, Nikki, Tawfiq, and Claire

Soma, Nikki, and Claire

Terence and Nikki (and Sabrish with the camera)

Kristen and Nikki

Rodas at the Reception

Mari and Darek

The Candelore Clan

Nikki and Yours Truly

YES!

The Nikki Candelore Roda Award!

Friday, February 8, 2013

pre-A2 DataDive 2013 post

Happy New Year, dear readers!*  ;)

Apologies for the radio silence during the last couple of weeks. But believe it or not, things have been pretty busy here in Michigan (reeeaaaallly?!)

Some of you may remember the event I put on with my friends Claire and Emily last year, the A2 DataDive. The event is centered around been a bridge for local nonprofits with data challenges and skilled volunteers who want to apply their brains to a good cause.

Last year's event was more of a proof of concept ("We CAN do this!") than anything else. And with the encouragement of our school we decided to put on another one this year! And we are so pleased to say that everything about this event has grown since last year. We had to cap registration (for space reasons) at 120 volunteers, representing students and faculty from all over the university, and we've got four nonprofits with projects this year:

  • Ozone House, "a community-based, nonprofit agency that helps young people lead safe, healthy, and productive lives. Since 1969, Ozone House has actively developed unique, high-quality housing and support programs and services that provide support, intervention, training, and assistance to runaway, homeless, and high-risk youth and their families.” They are hoping to show that their programs save Washtenaw County money through a comparison of their data on youth in their programs to youth data from Washtenaw County.
  • Huron River Watershed Council, which "is southeast Michigan’s oldest environmental organization dedicated to river protection. The Huron River Watershed Council works to inspire attitudes, behaviors, and economies to protect, rehabilitate, and sustain the Huron River System.” Huron River Watershed is hoping for an interactive map that can more quickly indicate what species are present on any given parcel of land in the bioreserve.
  • Food Gatherers, which "as the food rescue and food bank program serving Washtenaw County, ... exists to alleviate hunger and eliminate its causes in our community. They serve 150 non-profit agencies and programs providing direct food assistance in the form of hot meals, nutritious snacks or emergency groceries to low-income adults, seniors and children in Washtenaw County.” Food Gatherers is interested in analyzing trends of the meals they provide to the county. They want to know if they can discover the days, weeks, and months that they provide the most meals so they can plan their services better.
  • 826, "a non-profit organization dedicated to supporting students aged 6 to 18 with their creative and expository writing skills, and to helping teachers inspire their students to write. 826 opened its doors in June of 2005. Since then, they have been blessed with students, tutors, and volunteers overflowing with enthusiasm." 826michigan has many different spreadsheets for any given student that uses their services. They are interested in tracking their students in the long-term to see how much a student has improved through the years.

Claire and I have had a blast working with these organizations and the other student volunteers to help but this event together. It is so hard to believe that it is all going to get started tomorrow! I'm so excited! I'll be sure to send you an update about the solutions we all come up with over the course of the weekend.

In the meantime, you can check out some of the publicity that Claire and I did ahead of the event. Our school made a promotional video to help us get the word out:


And this past week Claire and I were interviewed on Michigan Radio's show Stateside, the podcast of which you can access here: http://www.michiganradio.org/post/stateside-solving-data-needs-non-profit-groups

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* WOW! I can't believe it has been so long since I last wrote!